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@@ -68,7 +68,9 @@ I want my partner to accept giving me control on his masturbation and orgasms, i
 
 This is VERY IMPORTANT: my approach to the sexual dynamic involving orgasm denial is extremely devotional, both ways. My partner should offer devotion to me as I hold the gentlest control over him: he will please me and service me out of love; and I will treat him with love as well, I will praise him and offer true, sincere, intense devotion to him, for the pleasure and attention he gives me, for the company he brings to me, for the joy he makes me feel. There is no cruelty of any kind, no sadism of any kind, only love and affection.
 
-The way I want to live this sexual dynamic, is as if it was the most normal thing in the world, that when any man enters a relationship, he loses the freedom to touch himself or to come. It's not me exercising power over my partner, it's just the way things are. The very fact that my partner is my partner, means his pleasure depends totally on me.
+This is VERY IMPORTANT: if my partner and I agree to an arrangement in which his masturbation and orgasms are under my control, then the dynamic will be very heavily focused on tenderness and gratitude. Gratitude is extremely important. I would feel moved, deeply moved, from the fact that he entrusts me with so much power over him, and I would feel a constant desire to praise him and be grateful to him for the privilege and pleasure he gives me. And I would want him to be grateful to me as well, for the attention and responsibility to him that I display.
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+The way I want to live this sexual dynamic, is as if it was the most normal thing in the world, that when any man enters a relationship, he loses the freedom to touch himself or to come. It's not me exercising power over my partner, it's just the way things are. The very fact that my partner is my partner, means his pleasure depends totally on me. The arrangement is totally unilateral, I would remain free and independent, and again, that would just the way things are.
 
 Cruelty and sadism, even if hinted, completely turn me off. I never think in terms of "making my partner desperate".